Temptations in the Frugal Life
Opening window and basking in cool breezes, eyes taking in sun shadows highlighting bedroom walls, temptation came. Not prepared for such thoughts, I had been reveling in the unusually cool South Texas spring day. Without invitation, discontent seeped into my soul.
Early morning light previously enjoyed, now seemed to accentuate all that needed to be accomplished. Little did I know four years ago when moving in, my plans for this area still would not have found success.
Walls could use fresh paint, carpet now even more worn, dressers in need of some repair. My enthusiasm for this day was waning. Mind began to race as I contemplated a myriad of decorating ideas. Reality soon surfaced, however, as I remembered no budget for these projects and other priorities reigned.
Choosing to recall how grateful I had been that old quilt had matched curtains already here, rugs made to cover carpet spots still worked well and lovely pictures of precious family graced my walls, I made no allowance for this temptation. Having a budget helps to keep my emotions in check. No longer being ruled by feelings that so easily change from day to day, living with a plan keeps me from being ruled by momentary desires. Some day this room would get a chance to sparkle anew, but it was not to be for now.
Smiling, I chose to delight in fresh air blowing curtains with gusto. Reminding myself this room had comfortably housed many a guest and served my family well, I found victory! No more temptation for me. (At least for today!)
How do you wrestle with such temptations?
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2 Responses to “Temptations in the Frugal Life”
July 22nd, 2010 at 12:59 pm
What an encouraging post. Being thankful is such an attitude changer.
Question, on the same lines. What do you do when everyone else wants to go out for a meal? We have a family policy, at present, not to eat out unless for very special occasions (wedding anniversary type and then to use coupons). I have a situation where several other people want to have a discussion over a meal-have offered my home and everyone bring a dish-but think that going out will win the day. I’ve missed several of these occasions and made various excuses. Any thoughts?
July 23rd, 2010 at 10:33 pm
Sarah:
I think the frugal life is most difficult when we feel we are not living up to someone’s expectations. I really respect your decision to try to be faithful to the budget parameters you have set regarding going out to eat. It may be necessary to share with your friends that at this time, your family has made a decision to forgo dining out and again offer your home to get together. If your decision is not understood, rest in the fact that doing the right thing does not always ensure favor!
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