Ten Frugal Practices I Wish We’d Done from the Beginning
This list is off the top of my head. If you ask me again tomorrow, it will probably look slightly different, and the week after that I might remember something else I think is even more important. There is probably something more important that we do that I learned at my mother's knee so I take it for granted that everybody knows. That's why I didn't title this: "The Ten Most Important Frugal Things We've Done".
1. This advice given to us at the beginning of our marriage. We did know this one from the beginning, but we also strayed from this one too many times. Still, having been told early on, we did do much better than might have otherwise. We'd have done better still to never use a credit card at all, or at least to never, not even once, use it without paying off the balance at the end of the month.
2. Laundry soap, home-made (Also check out my Q and A posts on the laundry soap here. also here, and for more information on suds try here.) This would have saved us a bundle if we'd done it from the beginning or our 1982 marriage instead of only the last five years.
3. After far too many years of ordering pizza delivered on pay-day, we finally realized that if there is any regular indulgence in your life that you can only afford on payday, you really cannot afford it at all and need to get your spending under control. We needed to get our self-control under control!
4. Home-made diaper wipes and travel wipes. We did this pretty well for the last three children. Even though the 'baby' is now nearly 12 years old, I still make these from time to time for traveling. So refreshing! And so nice for sensitive skin. Also, I asked my grandson's mama to tell me off the top of her head her favorite frugal tip she'd learned from me, and this is what she thought of. My grandson's mama is my second daughter, and while I do love being the grandmama, I can't really say it's more fun than being the Mama. It's loads of fun, but not more fun- just different.
5. This home-made stain remover, which works even on thrift shop baby clothes with yellowed stains of undetermined origin. In fact, sometimes I can buy used baby clothes that are drastically marked down because of those yellow stains, and then I soak them, launder them, and sell them at a yard sale or consignment store for more than I paid.
6. Washing my hair with baking soda I do have incredibly soft water. When we went on vacation we stayed in places where the water was incredibly hard, and my hair just felt stiff and icky, so while we were gone I switched back to shampoo- only Head and Shoulders because my hair felt so gross (Pipsqueak, who has thin, silky, very blonde hair, does not use baking soda, and she, too, complained of her hair feeling 'gunky' from the hard water). I noticed that I had to shampoo my hair daily or it was greasy and clumpy, whereas, at home with baking soda, I can go three days between washings, and my hair still isn't as disgusting as it was in 24 hours with hard water and shampoo.
7. Washing my face with cod liver oil The first week I did this every night. Now I only use the oil a couple times a month, and mostly just splash my face with warm water and baking soda the rest of the time (the baking soda when I am washing my hair), and maybe take clean, wet washcloth to it. I don't wear make-up, so this regimen works well for me. If you wear make-up, the cod-liver oil is a great remover.
8. This recipe for cookies- no wheat, no corn, no eggs, no sugar, no dairy, but the Cherub still loves them!
9. Reading the Tightwad Gazette Books To be fair to myself, I could not have read these from the beginning because they were not published yet. I do have all my Progeny read them for part of their Home Economics class in our homeschool. If anybody tells you these are 'extreme' ask them how much they are saving each month and what their debt level is, and then ponder whether or not that's the sort of standard you share or desire.
10. Revising my way of thinking from 'what do I feel like having' to the What's In My Hand principle (see also here) , because the biggest aid in frugality is attitude. I know you've heard me say that before, but I don't think we can hear it enough. Y'all are probably much nicer than me, but there are always new areas I am discovering where I am a bit of a spoiled brat. I am 48 years old and I think I was a late bloomer at this growing up stuff.
So... what do you wish you'd known way back when and put into practice from the start?
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3 Responses to “Ten Frugal Practices I Wish We’d Done from the Beginning”
June 18th, 2010 at 12:48 pm
I think the “What’s in your hand principle” is what I wish I knew from the start. I missed out on appreciating many blessings and seeing opportunities to learn to be more resourceful because I did not have the proper perspective.
June 19th, 2010 at 9:12 am
To use cash, not a debit or credit card is one I wish I’d done from the beginning. It forces you to think and rethink a purchase before heading to the cashier!
June 20th, 2010 at 7:40 am
Outside of Amy Dacyzyn’s books, I believe I’ve learned the most from you about really, really being frugal. It’s one thing to use a coupon for boxed cereal at the grocery store-it’s another thing to know what to do with a 10-pound bag of pinto beans and some brown rice when there isn’t any room for error in the budget. I wish I had known about homemade laundry soap from the beginning, too-what a money saver!
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